Romantic Movies, Films and Videos

Watching a good sappy love story together can put you in the mood for romance

Romantic movies have a way of becoming sizzling bedroom sessions. It's hard for a woman to watch a romantic movie with a happy ending and not want some quality bedroom time afterwards. Romantic films and movies bring out the vulnerable and romance hungry monster in all of us, and if a man can learn how to encourage this he'll be singing praises to the romance writer and romantic movie director for the rest of his life.

The next time that your evening out turns into an evening at home, try finding a romantic love story on cable, or renting a romance video from your local video store. Then grab a big warm blanket and snuggle up together to watch it. There is one tip that you must adhere to, and I'm looking right at you when I say this men. Don't roll your eyes or make fun of the movie, sappy moments in that movie, or any emotional responses the film might draw from your partner!
If you do anything that makes her feel ashamed of her tender feelings, you're romantic evening may very quickly turn into a cold night on the couch alone. A woman has a capacity for great emotion, which she needs to be able to express. Many women have learned to hide or disguise their emotional response to romantic movies just because of the negative response that men display to them. They are embarrassed and ashamed of being the tender, gentle creatures that they were born to be. Do you WANT to be married to a woman that chews nails and spits all over YOUR feelings? I didn't think so.

Now here's a romance secret that will make you a hero in her eyes, and reward you big time in the bedroom. Most men don't realize that for the small sacrifice of sitting through a sappy romance, and holding her tenderly during the emotional portions, they'll be earning not only her undying love and devotion, but an eagerness to express that passion in the bedroom in ways that you may not have even considered possible. If she's not afraid of you ridiculing her, she'll feel more confident about expressing herself in your love making. You just have to prove to her that you're worthy of that trust.

Unfortunately what men usually end up doing is making fun of the movie, or refusing to go see it, thus leaving their unhappy woman with the feeling that they are only interested in sex and not in romance, and making her feel 'used' in the bedroom rather than 'romanced'. She'll withdraw more and more into herself, and will eventually stop trusting her emotions with you at all.

I'm not telling you that you have to watch every sappy romance that comes out on video, but if she seems to show special interest in one every now and then, make an effort to surprise her with it and you'll be pleasantly rewarded! If you want to make it an especially memorable evening, don't tell her what you have planned. Just rent the movie, bring it home, maybe have a candlelight dinner with romantic music in the background, and when she starts wondering what you have up your sleeve, show her the video. Just try it, and see what I mean!