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Love Songs, Lyrics and Romantic Music set the Night on Fire

Use Romantic music, lyrics and songs to melt your partners heart

Romantic music touches our hearts in ways that we can only begin to understand, but maybe it helps to know that hearing was one of the very first senses that we develop in the womb. We are very sensitive to the beat of the heart and the sounds of the world around us even after we are born.

It's so important to use all of our senses in a relationship. Not senses as in those your mama says you left behind when you went off to college, but rather sight, sound, touch, taste; the ways that we really experience life and interact with eachother.

If ever you feel that your relationship is in a rut, or that you could use a few new ideas for spicing things up, I recommend getting your head and heart in the right place with some good romantic music. Find some songs that really speak to you personally, that touch your heart and put you into the mood for romance.

Not just for a 'quickie' or some more of those crazy sea otter antics you tried on her last night. But something that touches you both to the very core of your being, that stirs something deep inside you and makes you hold fiercely to eachother afterwards. When you find a love song that you feel speaks to your heart, buy it! Start collecting romantic music and love tunes and when you have enough, have all the songs recorded onto a romance tape or romance CD that you can play softly to put you and your partner in the mood for love.

If you feel creative, I'd suggest creating your own "enchanted evening" romantic music collection. Give yourself about half an hour's worth of soft 'hungry' music, then maybe tunes with a little more lust and sensuality, and then back down to a gentle romantic music. You see the trend? If you're a guy this can be especially useful if you want to drive your woman over the edge and into a sea of endless pleasures and complete awe of your romantic prowess. . .

Look at it this way, it's hard to keep track of how long you've been encouraging her personal pleasures, but if you know how long one song is you can time yourself with the music. One song for this particularly sensitive part of her body, a second song for a different point on the vast array of pleasure points, a third song for a third area, and by the fourth song she'll be clinging to you and begging for you to take it to the next chapter. I'll let you decide whether you want to give in to her helpless pleas for fulfillment or let her suffer additional pleasures through just one or two more songs.

The best love songs are those that put you in the mood for romance, but you can pick music from just about any category to fit your needs. If you like country music, shy away from the 'achy breaky' tunes unless they happen to be songs, they might make her sad and that won't work in the bedroom. Slow Jazz music has some great possibilities, and the Classical music collections might reveal some good ones also. For heaven's sake don't use hard rock, it doesn't matter what song you pick the beat is going to be too fast for her.

Try watching some of her favorite sappy movies and pay attention to the theme songs. Movie directors pay millions of dollars to draw on the emotions of their patrons, and music is one of the best ways to set the mood, even for them.

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