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How to Get a Girl to Like You
by John J. Alexander
We've all had that special woman in our lives. You
know... the one with the sweet personality, the really
nice hair and a perfect face. She dates the more "adept"
guys... but how can you get her to like you?
While men are primarily attracted to women based on
their looks, a woman finds a man attractive because of
his personality. A ideal man is an alpha male who's
confident in himself and not afraid to take the lead and
get what he wants out of life.
Ironically, what this means then is that the best way
for a girl to like you is when she feels like she has
EARNED you.
That's because to get a girl to like you, you should
come from a mindset of high value. Never come from a
position of neediness.
So the best attitudes to have towards any one particular
woman are: 1. Nonchalance.
2. Non-attachment to whether she likes you or not. (By
that I mean, if she likes you that's awesome, but if
not, there are tons of other chicks out there who are
equally as great as she is.)
The bottom line is that a woman should never be a
challenge for you. Instead you should be a challenge for
her.
In addition to placing a high value on yourself, you can
also eliminate neediness by building up your social
network. Make friends with as many women as you can.
(Women are easy to make friends with.)
Also date as many women as you can... don't restrict
yourself only to dating "that one special girl."
You see, the last thing you ever want to have going
through your mind when you're around that special woman
is, "God, I MUST have this girl! She's irreplaceable!"
Having an abundance of women in your life will solve
that problem.
Also, whenever a woman sees that other chicks are
attracted to a guy, she too feels attraction.
Psychologically, this is known as the "social proof"
phenomenon... and it's much more powerful in women than
men.
Ever noticed how your female friends drool over the guy
at the corner of the bar who's got four babes at his
table? That's social proof in action.
By the way, it's fine to think a girl is beautiful and
to feel something strong for her.
Here's the key though... you must always remind yourself
that there are LOTS of other women out there who are
just as wonderful as that girl you really like.
If you start thinking that any girl is one of a kind,
then that gives her power over you, and, ironically,
makes her lose attraction to you.
So, you're free to think that a woman's amazing. Just
remember that lots of other girls are amazing too. That
way you won't become needy.
So remember, place a high value on yourself, make her
earn your attention, and hang out with as many women as
possible... those are the three secrets for how to get a
girl to like you.
John Alexander is author of How to Become an Alpha Male,
a seduction success system for men. Discover the
excitement and pleasure of having gorgeous, horny women
automatically drawn to you like a magnet.
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