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You don't need cosmetic surgery to find your perfect
match
Hollywood certainly doesn't make it easy for us to
appreciate the body God gave us. We see beautiful models
prancing around on television with perfect proportions
and unbelievably good looks. How can we possibly compare
to these living Barbies with their perfect hair and
perfect makeup?
Guys have just as difficult a time finding a good
relationship Yet they thankfully don't as often turn to
cosmetic surgery in their search for perfection and a
perfect match. In reality a woman is such a simple
creature to please, they'd be shocked to learn that just
learning something as simple as dancing can completely
change their standing in the relationship race.
Reader's comments...
By Kathryn Lord
"I'd like to find a partner who dances. Do you?" my
profile on Match.com asked. My now-husband Drew emailed
that he was willing to take lessons, and that was enough
for me. Non-dancer Drew’s courage to put himself out on
the dance floor and to show in lesson after lesson his
amateur status was truly impressive. We took private
dance instruction for a year before our wedding, and as
a result, got around the dance floor quite gracefully at
our reception.
Women are dying to dance. Any man who can ask a woman to
dance, then take charge of what happens on the floor and
move relatively smoothly to music, has enormous appeal.
Fat or skinny, short, tall, or not even close to
attractive, even old, old, old, a man who is comfortable
on the dance floor has his pick of the ladies.
For whatever the reason, dancing intoxicates. Especially
women.
Few men can really dance, and those guys are on the
floor constantly. Some men think they can dance and do
get up, ask the ladies, and have fun. But at least half
the men sit or stand uncomfortably on the sidelines with
all the women who wish to be on the dance floor. We
women don't get to dance nearly as much as we'd like to,
even the ladies who are good dancers. There aren't
enough dancing men to go around. You can almost feel the
yearning, the sadness, and the disappointment in those
women and between those non-dancing couples. And the
non-dancing guys? Pathetic.
I personally know three women close to my age who met
their now - spouses on the dance floor, and those ladies
were great catches! Gentlemen and ladies, there's a
message here.
Guys:
1. Take lessons and learn how to dance. Leading well
takes skill, but if Drew could learn how, so can you.
2. Go to dances.
3. Ask women to dance. Lots of women. They'll love it.
Even if you aren't so good, they'll appreciate your
efforts.
Dance lessons themselves are good places to meet women,
and most dance studios have regular parties for their
students to practice what they have learned.
Ladies:
1. Take dancing lessons yourself and learn how to
follow. Here I was, 50 years old, thinking I loved to
dance, and I had no idea how to do the woman's part!
Following takes skill! You have to figure out what your
partner has in mind for you to do in a split second, and
then actually do it, all while dancing backwards.
2. Buy yourself some real ballroom dancing shoes, maybe
with high heels. Believe it or not, those shoes are
comfortable. They have to be. Not only do they look very
sexy, they stay on your feet!
3. Hang out at dances, too, if you like to dance. Single
guys go to dances.
If you are connected to a dance studio, other single
women will be at their parties as well as the studio
instructors and male students, so you will know people.
Dance parties are safe and comfortable for single women.
Guys -- nothing enhances as man's romantic marketability
more than becoming a decent dancer. Learning to dance is
cost efficient and relatively painless. No surgery or
blood loss, no sweaty hours at the gym, no personality
makeovers needed. Just dance lessons.
What's stopping you? Look up the dance studio nearest
you and make that call! You'll become a dancing babe
magnet!
Kathryn Lord, Romance Coach / Helping Singles Find A
Sweetheart!
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